I suggest that you take time out to undo what has happened to you both separately and together.
Regardless of the many different diseases/ problems that you may have been told you have, these can be tracked using the Jing Markers
Again – here they are . . Jing Markers for Men form-1-2-1and Jing Markers for Women form-1 – your health report cards.
You can see this for yourself by watching your BBT, and other indications of wellness – just how much you can improve your state of health and thus your fertility. as you grow more well in your creating a better family naturally plan.
BOTH of you need to use massage course work on each other – playful and loving relationships will heal what has gone before.