Emotional turmoil in young years may set off instability, depending on how amicable and respectful parents were for children in their formative years.
May then be blamed fro many other ‘bad’ choices that they make later – all self medications their younger years where not healed.
Body/mind and soul may be disconnected from then on.
See ‘social factors’
We are all shaped by our lives, and we get to choose whether this enhances or depletes us.
We do not have to live in the same story forever.
Find a good counselor who can help reframe what happened.