With others. Never more so than the interpersonal ones – especially in making and being in families.
This means presence – not just being aware and conscious,
– but not being in a FIFO job,
or one that requires vast amount of personal time/resources.
Maybe missing in the modern world, where all seem to think that they are independent and better off this way.
Start thinking about what you found essential as a child and what you have to replicate this – and find it.